ah i see it's the need for the spindle to be stationery for the drawbar to operate you'tre worried about. Add a tacho to the spindle and use this to operate a relay that disables the drawbar.
There is a spindle lock that the motor cannot overpower, and the motor actually has a tacometer built into it. It puts out 7V per thousand RPM if I remember right. That is an interesting option, thanks!
For BT30 or any other scheme that has drive dogs, the spindle must home and stay homed. Not all spindles have locks and I am looking for the most universal solution . . i.e one that the typical mill could use . . although really I don;t know what 'typical' means

There is that functional issue, certainly, but what I am focused on is preventing the adapter from being ejected unexpectedly at 7,000 RPM with a sharp tool in it. I am beginning to get the impression now that a safety interlock is a foreign topic.