Well I kind of thought that, certainly a strong family resemblace

The PMDX 122 (That what you have? ) has a relay on it, you could use that to switch another relay or I suppose even switch the spindle itself if the current and voltage are within specs of the relay. Personally I wouldnt switch directly as it would mean your AC would be right at the PMDX and it introduces possibilities of noise. If you dont have a contactor then using a larger relay switched by the PMDX one would be a decent solution, think I would go higher on the coil voltage than 5V as again noise is less of an issue but that will depend on your machine and whether you already have 24V. My lathe and the mill I am doing at the moment have 24V on all of the control side of things such as limits.
Wizards should go back to the main Mach page when you press the Exit (return to mach in some) Sometimes they can take aa while to go back depending on the macro they use and how much its calculating however it shouldnt be any more than a few seconds. Which wizards are you havng problems with and which version of Mach are you using.
Hood