Argh, I'm not any closer, I can get it the spindle to turn on, but Mach immediately crashes.  For the life of me, I can't seem to figure this out.  I did notice one thing.  If I have my VFD turned off.  Mach3 doesn't crash.  I can select to turn on and off the spindle, and you can hear the relays turning off and on, this won't carsh.  However, when the VFD is turned on, and I do the same thing, this crashes Mach3.
From your last comment, I can see how it would be a problem to change directions.  This will also set off an alarm on my VFD.  I haven't seen the VFD error out this whole time though, so I don't think that's the issue I have.
This is so frustrating.  You have no idea how cool it is to have this giant machine begging to be used, and be held back by this!
Barry