Hey Jim,
Why would you rather stop than feed hold? The reason I ask is becasue if you are using mach for controlling things like your spindle and coolant, stop will turn them off and pressing start will not turn them back on. This is a potential for broken tools and other problems. Feed hold is prefered over stoping for other reasons as well. Stop is very sudden, it can cause you to loose position. It is recommended to rehome the machie if stop is hit while the machine is moving. I don't know for sure if it can be changed but if it could, I would guess Screen 4 is where it would have to be changed.
Brett