From what people have told me, compensating for the wheel wear isn't an issue as there's some code you can insert which makes the wheel shunt aside to be automatically dressed and recalibrated.
The machine at the top of my consideration list is the Syil U2
http://www.syilamerica.com/product_u2.asp which is the least expensive and smallest CNC surface grinder I could find. The maker says that it's compatible with many software packages though acknowledges that the ones to run it in the surface grinding configuration need to be totally 3D.
Any shop I've asked only have and know about humongous machines.
We plan to be doing only ONE type of job on this machine: making reeds. The blanks are spring steel Rc55, about 1.5" x 5" x .025" thick, and need to have a shape ground from them that leaves them looking like a knife blade - but not a uniform taper. A reed's taper is slightly S-shaped going from one side at .025" arcing down to about .015" then a much larger arc to decrease the blank to about .008" then a straight portion slowly tapering down to about .005" and then another large arc to the end of the other end of the blank, ending about .003".
Historically they used some sort of pantographing surface grinder for this. My problem is that I don't want to spend forever doing trial/error to get the shape "right". We'll - it wouldn't be forever if I only had one profile to get right, but I have 44 profiles for each set of reeds and all the profiles need to be smoothly "related" it's neighbor in shape. I'm currently working on a spreadsheet to interrelate all the dimensions automatically such that after I cut one and test it, I can hand file it to adjust it and enter the new dimensions into the spreadsheet which will repopulate all the dimensions again for the next round of testing.
Other people have suggested that I get a small grinder and have it converted to CNC but I haven't been able to find anyone who does that sort of thing. And when we talk "small", I mean that the largest working area we'd need is 2"x6". Plus we don't want a large machine as our shop space is very limited.
-- Rich --