so i feel like a idiot right now, lol
when i set up everything i did use a dial indicator to ensure steeps were right, inch forwards and inch in reverse, all perfect. and no blacklas turned on.
how ever im not one to dismiss anyone's suggestion when im asking for help, so i just ran out to my shop and put the dial indicator back on, i did noticed when i quickly jog back and forth it was not moving the table, it was at that very time i was looking at the end nut to see it slow down that i noticed the a gab starting between the nut and the bearing, it was loose to the point i could turn it by hand, i don't think i ever really tightened it back down after that last break down and clean.
after tightening it, i threw some metal in and ran the same code, and although it was only 1 test, i did not see the issue that kept happening last night. ill have to do some more test tonight but its looking like it was a human error, lol
so john a big thank you for your time and help. ill try and post another update after i test more tonight, but it is looking like it was all my fault lol