Ok, after looking at lua and the module for probing the Z axis, I might have a better idea of how this stuff is setup......but, this is a bit aggravating. I am a retired developer and quite frankly, I am in no hurry to get back into programming, especially with a quarter meg code file that is a new language to me.
The video tutorial shows z probing working exactly as I need. Probe makes contact, stops and retracts, and sets the z at the proper height (as configured). It appears that is the standard behavior. Yet with me, it seems to stop cold on touching the plate. I am convinced that if all the correct values have been provided it would do what I ask for...probe, retract, and set the z height.
Am I nuts? ... or is there something missing.