Have a small manual bench top grinder that is used infrequently and made by Sandford.
Can see accounting for wheel wear as a challenge which relates to bringing something to tolerance.
BTW, anyone can grind a surface parallel and flat,but to a tolerance ...that is a quest.
Seems you'll need some kind of Z DRO reset based on both wheel diameter ( maybe depends on how things are done) and Z height after dressing and also after so manny passes.
May be worthwhile having a work sequence defined before doing the remainder of the screen design.
Rough manual sequence below:
1.Dress wheel
2.Touch off wheel to surface high point
3.Amount of material to be removed is known
4.Do a number of passes
5.Check surface flatness and dimension.
6.Now have new amount of material to be removed (maybe call the above a rough grind)
7.Continue grinding, maybe redress wheel and if so need to touch off again (call this a fine grind)
8. Now go for surface finish and final dimension, so the passes increase and Z feed is less.
Note that in the above the wheel was never measured and is more or less "a go as you know" sequence.
There was only one or two postings on grinding posted in the last few years that I can recall.
FWIW,
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