Ok, I'm back again, after two very frustrating days of lost production dealing with this issue.
I understand all of what you stated below Art, but I can't seem to come up with that magical combination. I have hundreds of files that I will eventually need to convert from .sbp (ShopBot) over to G-code. These files were drawn as they were intended to be cut with the radius of the bit in mind. The only way they're going to be cut that way is to run them in exact stop mode which simply won't do. There are many short line and arc segments involved in most of them. Many of them get an item placed inside pockets that need to be the right shape or else things won't fit.
CV on, acell up (15, tried 20 and won't again), feed at what I used to cut that at before and I get to much shake/bounce after the stop & go resulting in poor cut quality and some rounding.
CV on, acell down (10 - 13), feed the same, more rounding less shake.
Feed set slower with both the above, not much change in the rounding but now the chipload is in the basement.
CV on, acell the same, CV distance tolerance at 0.1- 0.12, the rounding is better, but small rectangular slots are still rounded rectangular trapezoids (one corner is fair and the other is rounded off more. If the feed is kept up, it runs smoother, but if feed is lower, then it starts hesitating at each segment again (back to what acts like stop mode).
Angular check on with any setting (90 thru 180) makes it hesitate at all segments again. If there's a line segment with a shallow flowing curve and maybe another curve in the other direction that really needs little to no slowing, it hesitates at each segment. Take that same right angle in the example below and instead of going straight back to X0 on an angle, make it a shallow flowing "S" going back to X0. Now, my Cam program makes that out of a couple of arcs and a couple of small straight segments. With CV on and Dist Tol off, it flows along smoothly. With any angular check setting, you get a stop and go situation. With Dist Tol on and angular check off, you can make it hesitate again with too low of a setting.
CV feedrate doesn't really do anything accept cause hesitation (low setting) or is like it's turned off (higher setting), still don't know what to think about that.
I know that the older ShopBot machines have lighter gantries and are prone to some shake across the Y axis which is why I can't run at real high accel settings. If I run with lower feedrates, then the cutters will wear out prematurely (chipload too low).
What we need (ShopBots converted over to Geckos) is an Exact Path Mode with a variable feedrate. Decel into the corners and acell out of the corners over a certain distance at a certain speed with a slight slow down at gentle curves without hesitation at each segment.
I want my cake (Mach3) and to eat it too (Exact Path) don't I

In the past I have done some inlay and I'm sure that the time will come again when I want or need to. Is there anyone that has done inlay with Mach? How could you possibly accomplish it? Not with CV on and with it off, you would soon smoke your tooling. Maybe with a high acell and a low feedrate? I'd get the shakes if I tried that.
Maybe I need to buy some kind of a big behemoth cnc router that I can cement right into the floor. NOT

Thanks for listening to another rant, sorry.