My first notion was that liability was the hindrance, obviously it is knowledge:
"I have found several references to drawbar torque (typically 25 ft-lbs, or thereabouts), but nothing about tension, other than guesses."
This is equivalent of saying "I found the specs on voltage and amperage, but nothing on wattage" It's not like bolts were invented yesterday . . . the entire reason for torquing fasteners is to impart a specific tension (stretch) in the shaft . . . i.e. tension can be directly calculated from torque and vice versa. You're an electron guy and would not be expected to know this perhaps, but a mechanical engineer designing a tool changing system? . . . please.
As I mentioned, R8 quality varies greatly and the fit and finish has a significant effect on any tapered part like this. Also the presence of and degree of interference angle between the spindle and the collet will have a decided effect on the holding power per tension lb. There are many variables to consider, true enough, but stating that only guesses are available? Was there a development cycle at all with the tool changer setup? Did somebody just wake up one day with an idea and start manufacturing a product? They did no testing? Learned nothing? That whole statement from Tormach is incredible, in my opinion.
ON further review, I noticed that the Tormach setup had no positive drive facility. I don't think this is a viable strategy for a tool hoilder. How difficult would it be to put a dog drive type arrangement on the bottom of the spindle to engage the holders. Here again, not invented yesterday . . it's been a feature of gearboxes for at least 100 years.
As to a scissors arrangement, I do not understand what you mean by the draw bar having to move down when not changing tools, unless you are planing to continue to use the quill (which I think is also doable with some extensions) but I'll have a go at describing an example mechanism anyway. Imagine a large washer between the bottom of the spring pack and the spindle top, not attached to the spindle. The top scissor jaw simply pushes on the top of the draw bar. The lower jaw does the magic by lifting the washer which is free to float above the spindle top. All you would need it a positive stop (attached to the spindle or head) to limit the upward travel of the lower washer and when that stop was reached, continued motion of the scissor would force the collet out of the spindle. All one motion from a single actuator.