Thanks for the answers and help.
Yes I watched all the tutorials,read everything etc.
I now have motion!!!!!! it was the Estop (needed to be active low instead of off since I don't have one), and setting pins to port1 which wasn't done. Info that would have been great to know before wasting an hour or 2 trying to figure it out.
Now on to setting up the motors' speed etc. Pretty sure I'll need some help there too. lol
As I have questions/problems I will post them here and hopefully the answers as to help others in the same situation.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Xylotex/files/ this has an xml file and set up info for Xylotex/Taig/Mach, but don't think I would use his set up (it is for 3 axis board) might help with your set up to look at it. His info doc is in word97 and the pics will not translate to newer format, but every little but helps.
Still glad to get any info on motor tuning settings. x y and z sizes for soft limits etc.